"Having grown up like this, among so many crackpot rituals, I find nothing alien in exploring oddball ideas. So, sitting on the bench by the river that day, I remembered having read in Reader’s Digest — a periodical my family has undue reverence for — that when you are feeling bad, one way to make yourself feel better is to pray for others.

I began to pray for the people who were passing by. I prayed for the nanny pushing a stroller. I prayed for the young woman jogging by in spandex. I prayed for the little boy pedaling his bicycle. I prayed that each of them got the same things that I wanted for myself: that they have good health, peace of mind, financial security. By focusing on others and their needs, my own problems seemed less unique and, somehow, less pressing."

~ The Trick of Life,” Akhil Sharma, NYTimes Opinions

9 April 2014 ·

"The ability to work alongside or for people with whom we have a deep political disagreement is not a minor issue in a liberal society. It is a core foundation of toleration. We either develop the ability to tolerate those with whom we deeply disagree, or liberal society is basically impossible. Civil conversation becomes culture war; arguments and reason cede to emotion and anger. And let me reiterate: this principle of toleration has recently been attacked by many more on the far right than on the far left. I’m appalled, for example, at how great gay teachers have been fired by Catholic schools, even though it is within the right of the schools to do so. It’s awful that individuals are fired for being gay with no legal recourse all over the country. But if we rightly feel this way about gays in the workplace, why do we not feel the same about our opponents? And on what grounds can we celebrate the resignation of someone for his off-workplace political beliefs? Payback? Revenge? Some liberal principles, in my view, are worth defending whether they are assailed by left or right."

~

"The Quality of Mercy," Andrew Sullivan, The Dish

Sullivan on the shaming and subsequent stepping-down of the Mozilla CEO over same-sex marriage beliefs. This is important to me. 

9 April 2014 ·

"Kahan calls this theory Identity-Protective Cognition: “As a way of avoiding dissonance and estrangement from valued groups, individuals subconsciously resist factual information that threatens their defining values.” Elsewhere, he puts it even more pithily: “What we believe about the facts,” he writes, “tells us who we are.” And the most important psychological imperative most of us have in a given day is protecting our idea of who we are, and our relationships with the people we trust and love."

~

"How Politics Makes Us Stupid," Ezra Klein, Vox

A powerful articulation of something I have worried about vaguely for a long time. 

8 April 2014 ·

"

I was lucky. My experience with drugs and alcohol allowed me to recognize my pursuit of wealth as an addiction. The years of work I did with my counselor helped me heal the parts of myself that felt damaged and inadequate, so that I had enough of a core sense of self to walk away.

Dozens of different types of 12-step support groups — including Clutterers Anonymous and On-Line Gamers Anonymous — exist to help addicts of various types, yet there is no Wealth Addicts Anonymous. Why not? Because our culture supports and even lauds the addiction. Look at the magazine covers in any newsstand, plastered with the faces of celebrities and C.E.O.’s; the superrich are our cultural gods. I hope we all confront our part in enabling wealth addicts to exert so much influence over our country.

"

~

For the Love of Money,” Sam Polk, NY Times

This is in people and I didn’t know about it at all until I started supporting myself financially.

8 April 2014 ·

You can become a person who goes on hikes by yourself, if you want to. This was Carkeek Park in Seattle yesterday. 

8 April 2014 ·

"He could see this person so clearly, it was like standing outside himself. He was the person who’d handled his own shit to get his wedding ring back. This wasn’t the person he thought he was, or would have chosen to be if he’d been free to choose, but there was something comforting and liberating about being an actual definite someone, rather than a collection of contradictory potential someones."

~ Jonathan Franzen, Freedom

5 April 2014 ·

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"Write about form. A little bit. Not all the time. Just whenever you see an opening; whenever you think it might make sense, and call attention to the fact that we don’t just mysteriously, magically feel things while we’re watching movies and TV shows: that the filmmaking is what made us feel those things. 

The decision to get close to an actor’s face as opposed to hanging far back. The decision to let an intense confession unfold without music. The decision to light a brown-skinned actor so that his facial features are swallowed up, while his white costars’ faces are etched in loving detail. The decision to cut away from an act of violence, or to move in tight, or to show it again and again from different angles. 

These things matter. 

They matter more than most viewers realize, and it’s our job as critics to help them realize it.”

—Matt Zoller Seitz, “Please, Critics, Write About the Filmmaking,” at RogerEbert.com

25 March 2014 ·

"That is the great gift of laughter in all of its forms. It is a mark of recognition that rejects despair. Laughter allows us to approach indirectly, with a healthy distance and perspective, things that are too dismaying to approach head-on. And the laughter of joy comes from the delight we feel in recognizing that nothing is ever so bad as to be beyond hope."

~ Jeff Overstreet, “What’s So Funny?

12 March 2014 ·

"I have not read most of the big 19th-century novels that people consider “essential,” nor most of the 20th-century ones for that matter. But this does not embarrass me. There are many films to see, many friends to visit, many walks to take, many playlists to assemble and many favorite books to reread. Life’s too short for anxious score-keeping. Also, my grandmother is illiterate, and she’s one of the best people I know. Reading is a deep personal consolation for me, but other things console, too."

~

Teju Cole

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/03/09/books/review/teju-cole-by-the-book.html?_r=0

(via zacsettle)

6 March 2014 ·

"All real living is meeting."

~ Martin Buber, I and Thou

29 January 2014 ·

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aesthetics and narrative at seattle pacific university, class of 2013.